What are the characteristics of toxic masculinity? What defines an abuser? While it would be nice if these traits were easily recognizable in broad daylight, they hide behind shades of grey and our society's constant willingness to give bad men the benefit of the doubt. The violence comes in private. It comes with an excuse. One would think that 1950's In a Lonely Place would be painfully retrograde in its depiction of a damaged, violent man, but Nicholas Ray's film noir is immediately captivating and offers no easy answers thanks to Humphrey Bogart's complicated and magnetic …